Givin’ and Gettin’

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Just read a wonderful explanation of giving.  As human beings are made up of  basically two natures — one, the lower and the other, the higher — the idea is to get the higher nature in gear.  That’s the giving, kind, selfless, divine aspect of a person.  Children, being what they are, are basically working out of their lower nature — me, me, me.  Ah, but how to transform it?  Little by little.

I love Mikhael Aivanhov’s point of view on the subject.  It is that there is never a void in space.  So, when we give, on any level from things to love, that empty space is immediately filled.  In other words it enriches us to be generous.  It is a concept that might take some doing to show a child the benefits of this, but well worth it.

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Bogger Moms are Incredible

Today I sat with a handful of very powerful blogger moms.  I’ve never really known what bloggers do except communicate and communicate with one another.  Chit chat was my best guest.  My age puts me outside of this circle of knowledge.  But today I got it.  Bloggers, as least these bloggers, are just regular people, bright, I have to say, but regular people sharing information.  In this case, information about being moms.  There are so many people with information that others can use, it is an incredible tool for sharing that information.  The interesting thing is that these women know each other and each others’ work, support it and in turn share it again.   They pass it forward.

The fascinating thing for me is that these women are very forthright and stay true to themselves and their intent to pass on good information.  Their integrity is essential to them.  I applaud them.  Advertisers are now starting to see their worth and are sending them products to try in hopes that they will like it and will write about it.  There seemed to be no conflict in their minds as to whether to speak openly about a pair of jeans or anything else they may have received but do not like.  Smart girls, all of them!

Those women who came to my gallery in La Jolla today were optimistic, focused, level-headed and moving forward.  I like that.  The blogs they have created individually are www.mamarazziknowsbest.com, www.happyhealthyhip.com, www.rockonmommies.com, www.somedayilllearn.com and www.lajollamom.com.  There was one master twitter among them, Martha Swartz, who goes by the tag  TAZ31263.

It was a thrill to have these women and moms in the gallery today.  They had fun looking around at the art for children and those special sentiments for mothers.  I made a gift for them.  The verse on the piece of art I gave them said:  “Only mothers can change the world by the children they bring into it and raise.  Mothers matter more than we know.”

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Parents’ Pride

If parents only knew that they were the keepers of their children and not the creators or owners of them, they might have a different way of being with them.  They might have a more expansive point of view of their duties.

Being a parent is a huge responsibility, not one to be taken lightly.  I’m glad I had the opportunity to be one.

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Making Good Choices

My husband and I were discussing the importance of preparing children for life and the world they will inherit.  He asked me what I thought the most important thing to teach a child.  I thought for a moment, then said, “Make good choices.  Teach kids how to make good choices.”  He agreed.

Previously I had done a whole series of stories for children on just this subject.  This series is for very small children, but it lets them understand that there are things they can do, but also things they should not do.  I hope one day to publish these stories in book form.  I think the series is really needed because there are so many children who do not have the guidance or protection of caring parents.  Marc Klass (head of the Polly Klass Foundation) read these stories and said that he would not change a thing. I’m working on a children’s book right now.  Perhaps it will lead to my doing this series.

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Trusting Your Luck

To pick up where I left off on developing lucky kids — Christine Carter expounds on her blog Half Full, on Dr. Richard Wiseman’s book THE LUCK FACTOR.  In this she says he states that there are three key ways to increase our odds that something lucky will happen to us, and, he says, we can teach it to our kids.

Here are the famous three –

Teach kids to make new friends and keep old ones.

Teach kids to be open to new experiences in life.

Teach kids to relax.

I say that all of these are wrapped up in the statement “Trust life.  It will never let you down.”  And, I don’t think this needs to be taught; I think it is lived!  We all live in an atmosphere of miracles or luck.  It is only for us to breathe it in and trust that it is so.  When we, as parents do, our children will surely follow.

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Want to Have Happy-Go-Lucky Kids?



Sociologist Christine Carter has a wonderful site/blog called Half Full — Science for Raising Happy Kids.  In a section called “Why we Want Our Kids to Consider Themselves lucky” she states:

Research shows that people who believe themselves to be lucky are far more satisfied with their lives than unlucky people or people who think of themselves as neither lucky nor unlucky. Lucky people are happier with their family life, their personal life, their financial situation, their health and their career. How lucky we feel is connected to how much gratitude we have, as well as to our confidence and optimism—incredibly important positive emotions. Luck is hugely related not just to our success, but to our happiness. In fact, the word happy originally meant lucky—hap meant “chance” or “fortune”.

She also refers to Richard Wiseman’s book on the subject and suggests that parents may want to understand the four principles he describes in it.

Wiseman, Richard (2003). The Luck Factor: The Four Essential Principles. Hyperion: New York.

My focus has been on happiness throughout my life, and luck too, I now presume.  It is in the art I create and the children’s books I work on.  But I have had a couple of amazing examples of luck in my galleries.

When we opened each one of our galleries in California we had a grand opening which we promoted by offering visitors the opportunity to win a large canvas painting I had done for the occasion.  In each situation the person who won the drawing was someone who, prior to the event, knew they would win and planned that they would win.  One woman even got out of a sick bed to be at the party because she knew that painting was hers and she had to be there.

Luck is everywhere — dumb luck, bad luck, but more importantly, good luck.  Teach your kids how lucky they are — however they are and wherever they are.

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Treasured Friends


I once asked my granddaughters, ages 7 and 9, what was the most important thing in their lives.  And, without hesitation they both answered, “Friends!”  As they talked further, I could see that making friends was their way of creating their own world and becoming independent.  Friends were not only fun and an extension of their own personal family, a friendship was something they valued highly.  They treasured their friends.

Then as now, every new environment is an opportunity for them to make new friends.  These two little girls are eager and willing to be a friend first.  And a friendship is their reward.  That’s all they want.

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Painting for Kids

Today I painted a painting for kids, specifically girl kids, but not necessarily.  It is an image of two mermaids under the sea having a tea party.  I paint outside my gallery in La Jolla and while I was painting a young fellow about seven walked by with his family.  “Nice painting,” he said.  I thanked him.  He went on, “I painted on a canvas today myself.”  We talked about it — one artist to another.  I like the way kids are so direct.  It was one of the highlights of my day.

Long ago when I was doing outdoor art shows I had a mermaid tea party image in my  line of framed art.   A father and his young son came into my booth.  The father said to the boy, “Pick out a piece.  You can have anything you like.”

“I’d like the mermaids,” he said.  The father, startled, began making suggestions, “How about the sailboats?  The fish?  The merry-go-round?”  Finally the father said to me, “We’ll be back.”  Obviously they were going to have a heart to heart on the subject of what art would be appropriate for the boy’s room.

About 15 minutes later they returned.  The father said, “We’ll take the mermaids.”  That was it.  The father had said he could have anything he wanted and he wanted the mermaids.  What a good father.

Somewhere on UTube there is a video of me demonstrating how to paint a mermaid.  As I remember it was a really good mermaid.

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Plant Happiness

I just listened in on an internet talk radio program which I was invited to by Innovative Parenting LLC.  Innovative Parenting seems to be a couple of smart cookies on the kids’ front who have written a book entitled LAW OF ATTRACTION — the Next Generation.  As explained on the show, it is the authors’ belief and experiences as counselors and parents that kids would be greatly helped in their lives if they understood the principles of  the Law of Attraction, and parents would too.  One of the authors explained that learning to “apply” these principles by the next generation will make a world of difference to the kids in that generation and the world.

I fess up.  I have not read their book, but it sounds like a very good textbook for parents.

Like many of the big rules of life, the Law of Attraction is  not so much written down as it is in evidence everywhere.  The simplicity of nature says it all — when you plant carrots, carrots will show up.  We plant continuously — with our thoughts, our words, our actions and our emotions.  Teach kids to plant happiness.  That’s what they want.  That’s what we all want.

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Kids with a Lot

Today I was in a home that was a “druthers” home.  If you had your druthers in every aspect of a home, this would be the home.  In the children’s wing alone there was not only a playroom, but a stage equipped with curtains, props, costumes and lights!  Beyond the pool outside there was a child-sized baseball diamond and outfield.  The tennis court lay down the side of the property.  Nothing was left to the imagination.  It was all there.

Then I thought about the children who lived in this home and about the experiences they have in store.  Quite different from most.  But only different.  The same rules apply — be kind, be considerate, be generous, be respectful.  Lucky are the kids who get to visit this home.  They will probably enjoy it more than those who live there.

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